We are all same

Every technique of Buddhist meditation ultimately generates compassion. Whenever you look at your mind, you can’t help but recognize your similarity to those around you. When you see your own desire to be happy, you can’t avoid seeing the same desire in others

And when you look clearly at your own fear, anger, or aversion, you can’t help but see that everyone around you feels the same fear, anger, and aversion. This is wisdom – not in the sense of book learning, but in the awakening of the heart, the recognition of our connection to others, and the road to joy.

Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche