Even the worst losses become workable over time. They become part of your life story and destiny, they become an … More
Tag: Jack Kornfield
We become our own monastery
When we take the one seat on our meditation cushion we become our own monastery. We create the compassionate space … More
“In-the-body experience”
You may have heard of “out-of-the-body experiences,” full of lights , and visions. A true spiritual path demands something more … More
Touching all things with compassion
As we allow the world to touch us deeply, we recognize that just as there is pain in our own … More
The gratitude prayer
“With gratitude I remember the people, animals, plants, insects, creatures of the sky and sea, air and water, fire and … More
You hold in your hand an invitation
“You hold in your hand an invitation: to remember the transforming power of forgiveness and loving kindness. To remember that … More
When our stories no longer bind us
“When the stories of our life no longer bind us, we discover within them something greater. We discover that within … More
Stories we tell ourselves are mostly untrue
It is a great relief to discover that our stories do not fully define who we are, or what is … More
We can only do small things with great love
The things that matter most in our lives are not fantastic or grand. They are the moments when we touch … More
Invitation to freedom
Repeated thoughts and stories are almost always fueled by an unacknowledged emotion or feeling underneath. These unsensed feelings are part … More
Each of us has our own measure of pain
Each of us has our own measure of pain. Sometimes the pain we suffer is great and obvious; sometimes it … More
Being at peace with impermanence
We may lose our best piece of pottery in the firing, the charter school we work so hard to create … More
Difference between reaction and response
In a healthy response to pain and fear, we establish awareness before it becomes anger. We can train ourselves to … More
Did I live well?
In the stress and complexity of our lives, we may forget our deepest intentions. But when people come to the … More
We must have the courage
When we come into the present, we begin to feel the life around us again, but we also encounter whatever … More
The mature heart is not perfectionistic
The mature heart is not perfectionistic: it rests in the compassion of our being instead of in ideals of the … More
One insult after the other
A genuine spiritual path does not avoid difficulties or mistakes but leads us to the art of making mistakes wakefully, … More
Fear is the cheapest room in the house
Like pain, fear is the other common predecessor to anger and hate—fear of loss, of hurt, of embarrassment, of shame, … More
We may feel that we are unworthy
In our culture, people find it difficult to direct loving-kindness to themselves. We may feel that we are unworthy, or … More
Imperfections Are Part Of Life
Imperfections are part of the display of life. Joy and sorrow, birth and death are the dance of existence throughout … More